My husband is so smart!
Last night was pure heaven.Pudd'n didn't throw any melt downs at my mom's place; so we got a quiet evening at home.
I lit all my candles, poured me several LARGE glasses of whiskey, curled up on the couch with the hub and GP and watched t.v.
My mom had gotten me this apple that was covered in about 20lbs of chocolate, caramel and nuts. There is only 1/4 of it left. I mowed through that sucker in no time flat.
It was nice just to sit and not have to worry is some one pissing them selves or the bed. Yesterday Steve and I were both on the edge of a nervous break down. Maybe it was a good thing we spent the day apart.
When I was at the Wild Animal Park I started to cry in the gift shop. No rhyme or reason. The water works just started. Did the same thing in the line getting Pudd'n some food. Maybe it was just seeing all the families having a nice normal time with their kids.
I also came a bit unhinged and used some very colorful language at my step father last night. See, Steve came up with a great idea of putting the dvd player high up on a shelf so Pudd'n can't reach it. Now Pudd'n has to use sign and oral language to get videos that we will trade out. He can pick what he wants, he just has to ask for it and he's not breaking his dvds. The first time Pudd'n had to do this at my mom's was Xmas eve, that's when she had all the behavior problems and we had to come get him. Kenny (my step dad) said maybe we should put the dvd back in its old place and he'd really keep an eye on Pudd'n so he wouldn't break anything.
OH.HELL.NO!
I got my point across to him not to touch shit or else. So Steve and I are talking about things and he points out that Pudd'n started this soiling shit shortly after putting the dvd out of reach. Pudd'n is pissed that he can't do it by himself any more so now he's probably soiling him self out of retaliation. So now if he pees himself he gets no tv what so ever and I'll make him vacuum the house (he hates having to do that) and other things he'd rather not do. We'll see if that cures the problem.