My rant for the day:

I've read a lot of blogs that seem to have the same theme. A person is in a relation ship with some one that really isn't good for them. Everyone else, but this person can see it. If the person you are dating is under the following catagory:

Married, physically or mentally abusive, cheating on you, stealing from you and or your friends and lies.

DO NOT EXPECT YOUR FRIENDS TO RESPECT OR WANT TO PUT UP WITH THEIR SHIT.
We do not love these people, they have done NOTHING to earn our respect. If we tell you "we support you in what ever you do", does not mean we want these people around us. What we are telling you is that we will not badger you into dumping said loser. If we do, you will do nothing but dig yourself in deeper to try and prove us wrong. What it means is we will stick by you and hope you come to your fucking senses and goddamn soon.
So do not act all suprized that we do not want these people near us. We know what they are all about. We know that you can do better. Life gives us these losers as lessons. Lessons to teach us what we will and will NOT put up with. Take the fucking blinders off and meet some one who can give you more. Some one who is not married, separted, dating some one else, or what ever else it is that is preventing them from giving you HONEST 100% of themselves.
Now I will go fix myself another drink (thank you Dru) and try to kill the PMS monster that is rearing it's ugly head.