I was visiting a friends site and she had this to say about her self when a good looking man would pay her attendsion:

"And I'm not what you'd call flashy or simple... So I can't imagine I'd actually be the pick of the litter."


It made me think of the time when some one said to me "but you can get any man you want" to where I told that person "what crack are you smoking and can I have some?".
Why is it we cannot see our own beauty? Why do we look at our imagined flaws? Instead of looking in the mirror and saying "ew, I wish I could change this or that" why don't we say "hey beautiful!" or "hey sexay".
My friend Spaz complains of a TEENY roll in her belly when she sits down. I don't see that roll, all I see is a woman with a flat stomach and a cute belly ring. She feels she'd be more attractive with bigger breasts. Personally, in my opinion, what men find most attractive is CONFIDENCE. Who wants to hang around when all you do is whine about how your breast are not big enough or your butt is too big. Keep harping on your imaginary flaws girls, and that is what the men will start to notice! I thought I'd write a little list of things that I find attractive of my friends, so here they are in no particular order:

Spaz: You have beautiful brown eyes, your smile lights up a room, your arms are killer, you are a great dancer and you are the life of the party.

Lili: You ooze sex appeal. Your black hair & blue eyes rock! You are a true friend and are kind & generous.
You also dance damn good.

Lissie: You are a true classy lady. Your clothes & accessories are envious. Your smile lights up a room and you have an ass that won't quit.

Venus: Damn you smell good! Grow some cajones and you too, will have as many conquests as Lili. You are smart, sexy and funny. I'd say you are the best dancer of all my friends.

Athena: I'd love to run my fingers through your thick, black silky hair (but am afraid Aussie will break my hand). You can see all sides to a problem and always come out with good advice. You are patient and kind. You have soft brown pretty eyes too.

Aussie: You get extra points for putting up with Athena. You have beautiful blue eyes with long lashes I'd kill for. Your complexion is flawless, keep it out of the sun! You have an old soul and feel deeply.

Saga: The money I could make off of you! Your long blond hair & blue eyes are to die for. You are smart, sexy and have quick whit & humor. You also know how to work a cucumber with that mouth of yours!

Kari: Another blond beauty. Your kind heart shines through. You are a true and loyal friend. I could dress you up as a catholic school girl and saga as Alice in wonderland and make some serious money!!! You also have a sweet shy smile and you are very huggable.

Bables: where the hell do I begin? You have laughing, sparkling eyes. Your kind heart and generosity knows no bounds. It has been a true privilege to call you my friend.

Dru: I've only met you, but I love the way you dress impeccably. Your smile lights up the place and you are very photogenic. You also carry a killer purse.

So there you have it. A bit of ramblings on what I like about some of the friends in my life.